By Dixon Lpez
As an astrologer, I know that love is really a crucial problem for most of my customers. Job and cash are important, but they're just not within the similar league - which has always struck me as getting strange.Getting sufficient money to buy food, and put a roof more than one's head, is logically a great deal a lot more important than affectionate trivia, particularly within the context of a worldwide recession. But few things in life are logical, and there are situations when we need some psychological insight to work out what's heading on.
If we consider career and cash, our success and failure generally arrive lower to our personal decisions. We know that somebody with great company abilities will do well for themselves, regardless of the financial environment. We also realize that there are lots of ways to make money, regardless of whether it's functioning fourteen hours each day or gambling on horses. It may be difficult, but where there's a will there's a way.
Nevertheless in love it is a situation that is much more difficult. If there is somebody in existence that we're insane about, it's possible that there's zero possibility of winning them over. They might be interested in someone else, happily married or, heaven forbid, they may discover us unattractive.
When we're faced with this situation, it is hard to understand what to do. Logically we should give up and focus on someone else, but really often our emotions refuse to allow go. We might then decide on desperate measures.
For example magic. That is right, using spells and other weird stuff to win someone's heart. And that is where the astrologer often arrives in. A lovestruck customer may think that they are seeing an astrologer to ensure that they can realize the long term, but in reality they want the astrologer to change the future.
The customer believes that by predicting romantic bliss I can really produce it. So my prediction is instead like a spell, that may bring two people together.
Which is ridiculous. Can a climate forecaster allow it to be rain by predicting rain? Can an economist end a recession by telling the world that following month's factory output will increase? But that's what my clients want, and when I do not provide the products I sometimes get an angry reaction. Me, the selfish magician, doesn't want to help!
I suppose existence will be easier if I really was a magician. Saying the suitable terms, or perhaps even producing talismans or carrying out rituals. A magical energy will be produced, and my customers will be content.
Nevertheless apart from practicality, there is an issue of Karma. Adore spells might appear harmless, but arguably they are a variety of black magic, for two factors. Firstly one's utilizing spiritual power to fulfill one's desires. Secondly, 1 is attempting to interfere with an additional person's free will.
Obviously there's an assumption here that magic works.
A lot of people do believe that spells and charms can create actual changes, and also you don't need to look very far to discover people offering their occult providers. But if magic does work, there must be an element of emotional detachment.
If you're obsessed with somebody, and you're desperate to win their heart, then the strength of the feelings will most likely kill the magic. After all, the golden rule of magic is that you do the operation and also you then forget about it. Which means that a adore charm is more likely to perform if it's made by a third party - the village witch, a voodoo priest, the world wide web wizard.
Not surprisingly the probabilities of love magic working are really slim, especially if you need to do it yourself. This is a great thing. Should you, or the individual you hire, creates a genuine impact, then the Karmic cost might be huge. You're tying yourself to dark and debased forces, that could drag you lower into a deep pit, for years, decades and even existence times.
I'm not saying, though, that magic cannot perform. Ninety-nine situations away from a hundred, or even 9 hundred and ninety-nine times away from a thousand, it is fraud, delusion or luck. But there is always that occasional incident that defies explanation.
A gifted, if morally distorted, practitioner can sometimes create a psychic, or sympathetic, link between a talisman plus a human target - often facilitated through the target's DNA, such as hair, nail clippings or body fluids.
However this definition of magic is most likely too limited, and is really a result of me viewing as well numerous horror films. In practice a broader strategy is required, that requires into account the idea of normal magic, which can be an integral component of an astrologer's work.
Natural magic, as opposed to much of sympathetic magic, is functioning with character rather than in opposition to it. You are not transforming the natural course of events, you're instead functioning with the normal energy of individuals and conditions.
In terms of the horoscope, most of us possess the capacity to have a love life. But no two love lives are the similar, plus a method that brings romance to one person will bring misery and disaster to another. We now have to understand the nature of the horoscope, and this will tell us what kind of love life someone ought to be aiming for.
Let's take an instance from Hindu astrology. Kuja dosa.
This is an affliction involving the planet Mars. It is very frequent, and it can trigger big problems in one's married existence. People with kuja dosa are getting marriage partners who deal with them badly, and if they marry the first individual they fulfill there could be real regrets.
Fortunately, there is a way round the issue.
When a married couple both have kuja dosa, the situation cancels itself out. The couple can't hurt one another, and there is an superb possibility of a happy marriage. Therefore via information of one's horoscope, and the horoscopes of potential marriage partners, one can discover romantic happiness. So one is using natural magic to discover lasting love, and there is little hazard of poor Karma.
We following move to some more borderline application of astrology. It still comes under the heading of natural magic, but you can find some ethical issues. Very often I will use a client who is very focused on 1 person, and has access to their horoscope. This means that they'll give me two horoscopes to work with, their own and their focus on lover.
As soon as I've a horoscope, I can generally extract a fairly accurate image of someone's character. I can then advise my customer on the best way of getting a specific person. Tips on how to behave, what to say, even what kind of clothes to wear. In an extreme case, I can suggest about timing - in other terms, utilizing astrology to look for a perfect moment to create a romantic proceed.
Possibly, by telling my clients about their focus on lover's strengths and weaknesses, I'm messing around with someone's free will. So to guard myself from charges of unethical carry out, I ought to insist that the target lover has provided permission for their horoscope to become analysed and discussed.
When I exercise astrology I'm not conjuring up spirits, or making talismans, but I am definitely carrying out a kind of magic. Even though if I truly trust that there's little or no chance of the relationship happening, I'll inform my customer, as tactfully as feasible.
Natural magic is about working using the globe as it is, and if two people are fundamentally incompatible there is not significantly one can do.
However in an perfect world, we shouldn't obsess about specific people. If we want to become profitable in adore, we have to concentrate on ourselves, and use our personal horoscopes to know our potential for affectionate happiness.
We also have to know the natural rhythms of our lives, that astrology's really great at revealing. You can find situations in our existence when discovering adore is a near-impossibility, irrespective of how numerous witches and wizards we consult.
But if love isn't possible, other things is going to be, for instance job success, educational achievement or spiritual development. If only several of my customers would realise this!
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